Kissing can often function as a catalyst that transforms desire or attraction to sex or love. Kisses have the power to kindle passion and restructure relationships. A passionate kiss has the power to turn strangers into lovers or even reconstruct life-long friendships into romances. A bad kiss on the other hand can annihilate an otherwise beautifully magical connection between two persons. Many otherwise perfect dates have been ruined by a bad kiss.
Whether you’re an inexperienced kisser or a passionate Don Juan type of person there is always room for improvement. That’s why we have gathered the best tips for you to become a better kisser.
What is a good kiss? ‘While some might enjoy a soft wet smooch on the lips, others might like an intense clash of passion with deep tongue action. How we kiss and how we like to be kissed is very much about personal preference and style. Many times kissing a new person has a little bit of a learning curve.
Try to learn from them to gain some insight into what their likes might be. Tune in to your partners' actions and reactions as you would during sex. Be open to cues and adapt when possible.
As humans, we kiss for many reasons. While they often communicate respect, passion, or love, not all kisses work great in every situation. If going for a kiss, try to match the mood and rhythm of the moment. A wild lip-biting kiss can be exciting during the heats of passion, but might not be suited for comforting a sad partner.
Intimacy and validation are basic human needs and relationships often mean you have to compromise. But while you can learn to kiss, true passion can’t be faked. We aren’t sexually and romantically compatible with everyone. A bad kiss isn’t necessarily caused by lousy technique, but rather a lack of chemistry. If the kiss is bad you might simply be kissing the wrong person.
Oral hygiene is important and a stinky breath can be a real turn-off and ruin an otherwise perfect kiss. Keep your teeth healthy, and clean, and avoid eating foods like garlic, caviar, ginger, hot sauce, and boiled eggs on a date. These items will leave you with a less than inviting breath.
Bring some mints with you on your next date to freshen up your breath when needed!
Kissing a manikin is not very exciting. For the best make-out session make use of your whole body. You can hold your partner in a warming embrace and caress their cheek for a loving and intimate kiss, or move your way down their neck and chest for a passionate one. Kiss with intention and be playful.
French kissing is one of the most passionate kisses. A perfect french kiss has a perfect mix of saliva, caressing, and tongue action. And yes there is such a thing as too much tongue action! Don’t go crazy and start shoving your tongue down someone's throat. Start off with gentle and soft movements and work your way up to more intense tongue action if your partner responds positively to your tonsil check.
Kissing and sex aren’t supposed to be pretty or look good. It’s about enjoying each other's company and feeling good. Sucking on someone's tongue might sound a bit strange, it most certainly might look strange, but it can be a highly erotic experience. But! It can also be a highly unpleasant experience if you use too much force. Start gentle and work your way up. Nothing kills the mood faster than getting your tongue caught in a Hoover vacuum.
When it comes to intimacy and bonding thinking too much is often a bad idea. While some pointers might help, they can also distract you from the moment and your partner! Allow things to flow naturally and use sex tips for the tools they are. Use them when and if needed.
Now get out there and start smooching
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