Erotic massages are effective in building mutual desire in a relationship, can help with intimacy, and improve your sex life.
Giving and receiving erotic massages allow you to explore each other's bodies under more relaxing conditions. This allows you to build a safe environment where both of you feel comfortable exploring your sexuality as a couple.
Nuru massage is not a rub down with a happy ending, but a form of erotic massage meant to help heal both body and soul. The focus of the massage is relaxation through erotic energy and lots of body contact. You and your partner are free to end your massage just the way you want! No judgment from us. But Nuru Massage is not about sex. It's about eroticism!
So what is Nuru massage and why should you try it with your partner? Let's take a look!
Nuru is an erotic Japanese massage technique where both the masseur and the person being massaged are fully naked. In Nuru, the masseur uses their whole body to soften and relax the recipient's body.
Nuru (ぬる) can be translated as "slimy" or "slippery". This is because it is a wet massage where both masseur and recipient are oiled up in a special friction-free gel made on Nori, ie seaweed. Like in sushi!
The Nori gel is clear, odorless, tasteless, and does not stain textiles. If you do not have Nuru gel at home, you can use other products such as massage oils or homemade lubricants. In these cases, it may be wise to use a protective latex sheet to avoid textile damage.
For best results, heat the gel to a comfortable temperature and lubricate both. Once anointed, the masseur, unlike a regular massage, uses their naked body to slide over their partner. The intense body contact and the erotic atmosphere are perfect to reawaken the sexual energies in your body.
We all know that massage is good for our health. So it is hardly shocking that it can have a positive impact on our sex lives.
Giving each other a massage helps both body and mind to prepare for intimacy and sex. The moment allows you to disarm each other and to be allowed to take care of and be taken care of by your partner. Exposed, vulnerable, and loved.
Many women find it difficult to climax. Being properly relaxed increases the chances of having an orgasm.
If you experience discomfort during penetration or if you have difficulty getting wet, erotic foreplay and massage can give your body and mind time to prepare.
Not to mention that orgasms are like earthquakes. Once all the built-up and stored sexual energy is released, you can expect a wonderful body-shaking orgasm measurable on the Richter scale!
Relaxing your body and mind with a massage can help if you suffer from erectile dysfunction or if you have difficulty getting hard under pressure. When you shift focus from sexual performance and genitals, the chances increase that the body reacts the way you want.
Good circulation is vital for a steady erection. A massage can improve the blood flow and help you get rock hard!
After Nuru, when you are soft and relaxed, your bodies are ready to start exploring exciting new sex positions! We often fall back to the classic sex positions for the simple reason that it is, oh so much more comfortable! Most sex positions seem to require you to be some sort of crazy elite sex gymnast. And you know what some practically do! But you'd be surprised how much a proper warm-up can do your strength, flexibility, and most of all, lust!
Before you undress and slide body against body, there are some things we can do to improve the moment. Let's go through how you can get the right erotic mood for the moment.
Before we begin, it is important to prepare the playing surface and protect it from the Nuru gel. A latex sheet works great for this. Make the bed with the sheet or lay it on top of a soft rug on the floor. This will help protect the floor and textiles.
Get wet during your games with an Inflatable Wrestling Ring, the perfect sex accessory for Nuru. The high walls allow you to use as much Nuru gel or lubricant as you want while massaging each other. Slippery goodness!
Setting the mood is important! It's like building a set of rules for what you want to happen. It sets expectations and helps you focus on the activity. Turn on some good music and light some aromatic candles.
The most important thing is that you can both focus on each other and the moment. So turn off all distractions (phones, TV) and just let yourself be and experience this and now.
Here are some ways to create the right mood:
1. Lower the lights in the room.
2. Light scented candles. This provides a pleasant atmosphere without being too distracting. (Be careful not to burn them too low or leave them unattended.)
3. Play soft atmospheric music in the background.
4. Make sure you have all tools (such as Nuru gel and towels for cleanup) within reach. Having to interrupt the massage to pick up something is a sure way to ruin the mood. Not to mention sticky and potentially dangerous.
Nuru Massage works best on slightly damp skin. That's why we recommend a hot steamy shower before play. This is also a great time to begin foreplay. Why not set the mood with some soft jazz and soft lightning?
Get each other and rest and take a warm shower together. Use this moment to massage the soap into each other's bodies. Help each other get clean and relaxed. This will not only get you into the right mindset but will also help pre-relax your muscles before the massage.
When stepping out of the shower dry yourself slightly. But not too much! The added moisture will make the Nuru gel so much more slippery.
Who likes to get something cold poured on them when they are hot and naked? Avoid this by heating the Nuru gel. Pour hot water into a bowl and a bottle of Nuru gel into the bowl. Make sure that the bottle is properly closed so that the water does not leak in.
Do you mix your lubricant from concentrate or powder? Pour the lubricant into a closable bottle and place it in the water bowl.
Put the bottle back in the water bowl when you are not using it. This wat, the Nuru gel stays warm throughout your erotic massage.
Sharing an erotic massage with someone you love is a wonderful experience and a great way to increase intimacy in your relationship. Nuru can be used as foreplay or after-play for greater pleasure, satisfaction, and intimacy.
Getting to know your partner's body and sexuality is crucial for good sex. We should all make sure to take time from our packed schedules to enjoy sensual pleasures.
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